Etiquette

Clients may refer to this page for my policies and general guidelines for contacting a worker. As I operate in less populated areas I am often the first worker an individual has visited. Please adhere to these guidelines to ensure I am enticed by our communications and motivated to meet. 

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When booking: 

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Be as specific as possible. "Hi Naomi, I would like to book you for the morning of 12/4 at an incall location near my home in ___ for two hours." 

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To confirm your date, I'll ask you to provide screening information to my email at naomiwaitslehighvalley@proton.me in one of the following ways: 

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• LinkedIn with picture and 500+ connections plus picture of ID 

• Work badge with picture 

• Picture of business card, pay stub, work badge without picture, or email me from your work email account, plus picture of ID 

• Two references from established providers may suffice. I will not accept texts from your cousin as proper endorsements. 

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Screening is non negotiable and for our safety. It represents a gesture on your part that you will ensure my safety, and represents an obstacle that I purposefully put in place to rule out suitors who are unwilling to make such a gesture. For individuals naive to and therefore skeptical of this process - don't you think that if I were trying to trap you, I would make it as easy as possible? 

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Do your research on providers. Unbelievably, I have been accused of being a scam artist by prospective clients hesitant to pay the deposit, but real providers attempt to create a trail online to demonstrate their legitimacy. 

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Keep sexy specifics to a minimum - you must first introduce yourself and screen, and then you can send an email detailing your requests. 

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I request a $100 rush fee for same day appointments as I must be in excellent condition for our date which is more difficult when I need to move my schedule around on short notice. ​

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I do not return deposits unless I am cancelling. 

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Please ensure you are well-groomed and scrubbed, with clean clothing and a minty mouth. Consider the condition in which I will find your body and impress me with the effort you've made. 

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For kinky sessions I will not begin until we have negotiated hard limits,  boundaries, and safe words. All boundaries are honored at all times, consent is freely given and freely withdrawn, and given use of the safe word all activity is stopped immediately. It helps me to consider a "mood" or a particular frame of mind you'd like to achieve during our scene - eg do you want to feel like a good boy, or be punished? Feel helpless or like a treasured pet? Our conversation helps us flesh out the fantasy and ensure I am able to deliver the experience you want. "Whatever you want/like" unfortunately does not help me as my desire is responsive, and anyway, I do not particularly like using one implement more than another but you might. It's your body - and this is your time as well as mine. 

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Please be realistic in your claims and avoid carrot dangling by booking sessions you do not intend to attend, promising to become a regular, or large gifts with strings attached. Consistency is more honorable than broken promises. 

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Cancellations, Miscellany 

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• Deposits of $150 are required via Cashapp or Venmo to $northbynw17 for incall dates when I procure the location. 

• Deposits on outcalls are currently on a rolling basis, I occasionally overbook and will attend the date who first sends a deposit. Occasionally I ask for deposits on outcalls if you have a history of short notice cancellations or the drive time is excessive. 

• Cancellations on your part result in forfeited deposits. Cancellations on my part result in refund or rescheduling, whatever you prefer.

• Gifts do not constitute a contract for additional services. My fee is my fee and I would truly prefer you not give gifts than carry unspoken expectations. 

• Unless I have somehow prematurely ended our time together, I am happy to serve as a provider reference for respectful clients after our date. 

• Please avoid making body-shaming comments about me, yourself, or anyone else; as I believe introducing shame into our encounter is highly unsexy. I enjoy and believe deeply in a diverse vision of what can be attractive and want to share this vision with you. 

• Your experience level, looks, age (beyond 21+), disability status, gender or race do not matter to me and they should not matter to a provider worth seeing. I can accommodate a diverse range of experience levels and needs and am committed to non-discrimination and fairness in my dealings. 

• My personal likes and dislikes vary wildly and I experience responsive desire to a great extent. Asking me to direct a session when I don't know you can result in a stalemate! I need input and feedback from you to determine what I want or don't on any given day and the experience is highly personalized. 

• Attempting to bargain with me on my established boundaries and rates is an efficient way to ensure we don't meet. 

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